What are the best apps for long-distance couples?

HerFound lists 7 apps for long-distance couples: Agapé, Candle, Cupla, Flamme, Paired, Partner Pig and lovelee. All 7 have a free version. Candle, Cupla, Partner Pig and lovelee say outright that they do not sell personal data. Each fact below comes from the app's own pages, last checked Nov 14, 2026.

Updated . How an app gets on this list: Apps whose own site says they are made for, or suit, long-distance couples. We don't rank by rating or popularity and we don't publish ratings; sponsored listings are labelled.

Apps for Long-distance Couples compared

  • Agapé
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $9.99 to $199.99
    Sells your data?
    —
    Data used for ads?
    Yes
    Account
    —
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS, Android
  • Candle
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $4.99/week to $39.99/year
    Sells your data?
    No
    Data used for ads?
    Yes
    Account
    —
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS, Android
  • Cupla
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $4.99 to $7.99/month or $34.99 to $44.99/year
    Sells your data?
    No
    Data used for ads?
    —
    Account
    —
    Data kept
    —
    Platforms
    iOS, Android, Web
  • Flamme
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $6.99/week, $12.99/month or $44.99/year
    Sells your data?
    —
    Data used for ads?
    Yes
    Account
    —
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS, Android
  • Paired
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $79.99/year per couple
    Sells your data?
    Not for money
    Data used for ads?
    Yes
    Account
    Required
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS, Android
  • Partner Pig
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $0.99 for Partner Pig Pro
    Sells your data?
    No
    Data used for ads?
    —
    Account
    Required
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS
  • lovelee
    Free version
    Yes
    Paid plan
    $7.99/month, $24.99/year or $39.99 lifetime
    Sells your data?
    No
    Data used for ads?
    No
    Account
    Required
    Data kept
    Company servers
    Platforms
    iOS

Sources: each app's own privacy policy, help pages and US App Store listing. Open an app to read the exact passage and the date we checked it. “—” means we have not sourced that fact yet. This is what each company states, not an audit of what it does.

All 7 apps

Agapé logo

Agapé

A daily question app for couples: answer one personalised prompt each day, then see each other's reply.

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
Candle logo

Candle

A couples app: daily questions, games, photo prompts and date ideas for you two

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
Cupla logo

Cupla

A shared calendar for couples: plan dates, to-dos, lists and countdowns together

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
Flamme logo

Flamme

A couples app: a daily question, games, date ideas and widgets to stay close

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
Paired logo

Paired

Editor's pick

A couples app: daily questions, quizzes and games to help you grow closer.

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
Partner Pig logo

Partner Pig

A shared pig for two: play quick quizzes and drawing games with your partner to keep your pig happy and fed.

Love & RelationshipsFreemium
lovelee logo

lovelee

Editor's pick

A cozy couples app: trade doodles and love letters, raise a pet and play games together on a little boat you share.

Love & RelationshipsFreemium

Common questions

Agapé, Candle, Cupla, Flamme, Paired, Partner Pig and lovelee have a free version.

Candle, Cupla, Partner Pig and lovelee say they do not sell personal data. Paired says it does not sell it for money; see each listing for what the policy adds about advertising. This is what each company states in its own policy, not an audit.

Agapé, Candle, Cupla, Flamme and Paired are on Android. Partner Pig and lovelee are not.

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