What are the best alternatives to Paired?
HerFound lists 8 alternatives to Paired: Agapé, Between, Candle, Couply, Cupla, Flamme, Honeydue and Lasting. Agapé, Candle, Couply, Cupla, Flamme, Honeydue and Lasting have a free version. Between, Candle, Cupla and Lasting say outright that they do not sell personal data. Paired says it does not sell it for money. Each fact comes from the app's own pages, last checked Nov 12, 2026.
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Paired and its alternatives compared
- Paired
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $79.99/year per couple
- Sells your data?
- Not for money
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- Required
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Agapé
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $9.99 to $199.99
- Sells your data?
- —
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Between
- Free version
- —
- Paid plan
- $2.99/month or $26.99 one-time (lifetime)
- Sells your data?
- No
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Candle
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $4.99/week to $39.99/year
- Sells your data?
- No
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Couply
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $69.99/year
- Sells your data?
- —
- Data used for ads?
- —
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Cupla
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $4.99 to $7.99/month or $34.99 to $44.99/year
- Sells your data?
- No
- Data used for ads?
- —
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- —
- Platforms
- iOS, Android, Web
- Flamme
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $6.99/week, $12.99/month or $44.99/year
- Sells your data?
- —
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Honeydue
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- —
- Sells your data?
- —
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
- Lasting
- Free version
- Yes
- Paid plan
- $11.99 to $89.99
- Sells your data?
- No
- Data used for ads?
- Yes
- Account
- —
- Data kept
- Company servers
- Platforms
- iOS, Android
| App | Free version | Paid plan | Sells your data? | Data used for ads? | Account | Data kept | Platforms |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Paired | Yes | $79.99/year per couple | Not for money | Yes | Required | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Agapé | Yes | $9.99 to $199.99 | — | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Between | — | $2.99/month or $26.99 one-time (lifetime) | No | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Candle | Yes | $4.99/week to $39.99/year | No | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Couply | Yes | $69.99/year | — | — | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Cupla | Yes | $4.99 to $7.99/month or $34.99 to $44.99/year | No | — | — | — | iOS, Android, Web |
| Flamme | Yes | $6.99/week, $12.99/month or $44.99/year | — | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Honeydue | Yes | — | — | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
| Lasting | Yes | $11.99 to $89.99 | No | Yes | — | Company servers | iOS, Android |
Sources: each app's own privacy policy, help pages and US App Store listing. Open an app to read the exact passage and the date we checked it. “—” means we have not sourced that fact yet. This is what each company states, not an audit of what it does.
The 8 alternatives
Agapé
A daily question app for couples: answer one personalised prompt each day, then see each other's reply.
Between
A private couples app: chat, share photos, count down to anniversaries and plan together, just the two of you.
Candle
A couples app: daily questions, games, photo prompts and date ideas for you two
Couply
A couples app: personality quizzes, daily questions, games and date ideas for the two of you.
Cupla
A shared calendar for couples: plan dates, to-dos, lists and countdowns together
Flamme
A couples app: a daily question, games, date ideas and widgets to stay close
Honeydue
A couples budget app: track your accounts, bills and spending together.
Lasting
A relationship app for couples: guided sessions you work through together
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Common questions
Agapé, Candle, Couply, Cupla, Flamme, Honeydue and Lasting have a free version.
Between, Candle, Cupla and Lasting say they do not sell personal data. This is what each company states in its own policy, not an audit.
All 8 are on Android: Agapé, Between, Candle, Couply, Cupla, Flamme, Honeydue and Lasting.