Between vs Paired: how do they compare?

Between and Paired are both listed on HerFound, and both carry facts sourced from their own pages. Between: says it does not sell personal data; Paired: says it does not sell personal data for money. Last checked Nov 12, 2026.

Updated . We don't pick a winner or publish ratings. This sets out what each company says, side by side.

Side by side

 Between logoBetweenPaired logoPaired
What it isA private couples app: chat, share photos, count down to anniversaries and plan together, just the two of you.A couples app: daily questions, quizzes and games to help you grow closer.
Price modelFreemiumFreemium
PlatformsiOS, AndroidiOS, Android
Free version—There is a free version.
Paid plan$2.99/month or $26.99 one-time (lifetime)$79.99/year per couple
Selling personal dataSays it does not sell personal data.Says it does not sell personal data for money.
AdvertisingSays some data is used or shared for advertising.Says some data is used or shared for advertising.
Account—You need an account to use it.
Where your data is keptYour data is stored on the company's servers.Your data is stored on the company's servers.
Deleting your dataYou can ask the company to delete your data.You can delete your data or account from inside the app.
Company based inSouth KoreaUnited Kingdom

Sources: each app's own privacy policy, help pages and US App Store listing. Open either app to read the exact passage behind each line and the date we checked it. “—” means we have not sourced that fact yet. This is what each company states, not an audit of what it does.

What Between does

Couples who want a private space for two to chat, store shared photos and plan schedules.

  • 💬 One-to-one chat with stickers, emoticons and GIF selfies
  • 📸 A shared archive for your photos, videos and notes
  • 📞 Voice calls between the two of you
  • 🎉 Anniversaries and special days with countdowns
  • 🗓️ A shared calendar for both your schedules
  • 💻 Desktop versions for Windows and Mac
  • ✨ Between Plus removes ads and adds themes and love letters

What Paired does

Paired's FAQ says it is for couples at any stage and in every kind of relationship, including new, married, LGBTQ+ and long-distance couples and parents.

  • 💬 A daily question you both answer, unlocked once you've each replied
  • 🎲 Relationship quizzes and couple games
  • 🔗 Pair up with a code or link, with one Premium subscription for both of you
  • 🎂 Special dates and anniversaries with reminders
  • 📖 A shared timeline of your moments
  • 📱 Send moods, notes and photos to your partner's home screen
  • 💡 Themed packs, weekly relationship insights and expert tips (Premium)

Between vs Paired: common questions

Between's paid plan is listed at $2.99/month or $26.99 one-time (lifetime). Paired's is listed at $79.99/year per couple. Prices change and differ by country; each listing shows where and when we read them.

Between says it does not sell personal data. Paired says it does not sell personal data for money. This is what each company states in its own policy, not an audit.

Between: your data is stored on the company's servers. Paired: your data is stored on the company's servers.